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		<title>Memo to Obama: Forging Our Common Way Ahead</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[MEMORANDUM TO: BARACK OBAMA FR: SHARIF ABDULLAH DT: TODAY RE: SOME ADVICE ON FORGING A COMMON WAY AHEAD Yes, congratulations, you made history, yada, yada, yada. Not to diminish your amazing accomplishment, but since you’ve heard it all so many times by now, I won’t dwell on it (although, if you and I had a [...]]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">TO:<span> </span>BARACK OBAMA</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">FR:<span> </span>SHARIF ABDULLAH</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">DT:<span> </span>TODAY</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">RE:<span> </span>SOME ADVICE ON FORGING A COMMON WAY AHEAD</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Yes, congratulations, you made history, yada, yada, yada.<span> </span>Not to diminish your amazing accomplishment, but since you’ve heard it all so many times by now, I won’t dwell on it (although, if you and I had a few hours, I COULD!)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">No, I would rather not take up your time on that.<span> </span>I have a few pieces of advice for you.<span> </span>If I had five minutes of your time, the following is what I would say to you directly.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">But first, who am I to be offering you advice?<span> </span>I have been exploring our need for a value-driven, inclusive and sustainable society for decades, including as Founder and Executive Director of Commonway Institute.<span> </span>The title to my second book sums up my philosophy and my life goal: “Creating a World That Works for All”.<span> </span>I offer my accumulated experience to you.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">ADVICE #1:<span> </span>REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">This part goes without saying: while you are in fact the first African-American President (Elect) of the US, that is an IDENTITY, it is not the core essence of who you are.<span> </span>One day, even being President will be a past accomplishment.<span> </span>You, however, will still be you.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You are the first President (Elect) of the 21<sup>st</sup> Century – I expect you to act like it.<span> </span>(We obviously aren’t going to count the last 8 years.<span> </span>We are now seeing the close of the last Presidency of the 19<sup>th</sup> Century).<span> </span>As the first 21<sup>st</sup> Century President, you will set the model for all of the other Presidents to follow.<span> </span>Aim high.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Bill Clinton was a very admirable bridge between the 20<sup>th</sup> and 21<sup>st</sup> Centuries.<span> </span>There are many advisors around you who would like to copy those times.<span> </span>Don’t listen to them.<span> </span>Your arc must be higher.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">ADVICE #2:<span> </span>BARACK OBAMA – CATALYST IN CHIEF</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">In our days of fear and ignorance, many Americans needed a “Commander in Chief”, the father figure to command and control their lives.<span> </span>Now, we have just elected you, our first “Catalyst in Chief”.<span> </span>We don’t need you to “lead” or “command”.<span> </span>We know that the federal bureaucracy is virtually ungovernable and incomprehensible.<span> </span>(Of course, we do expect you to do your job and govern as best as a human being can.)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We most need you to display the skills that you demonstrated so well during the primaries and election: the ability to inspire, to engage and to motivate an entire movement of people to act.<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">It is indeed comforting that your heroes are similar to mine.<span> </span>I too am inspired by the words and deeds of Abraham Lincoln. He presided over the US when it underwent its most painful transition (to date).<span> </span>Now seen as one of our greatest Presidents, he was HATED by half of the country – the half that could not face the future, the half that could not live up to the vision laid down by the Founders in the Declaration of Independence.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I remind you of Lincoln so that you can remember to inspire – even though many of our fellow citizens would rather revile you than listen to you.<span> </span>Right now, they CAN’T listen to you – they can’t get past the color of your skin.<span> </span>However, they too will change.<span> </span>They too are caught on the arc of history.<span> </span>They will forget their hate – it simply is not sustainable.<span> </span>We can wait them out – time is on our side.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">ADVICE #3:<span> </span>DON’T LET THE WEASELS GET YOU DOWN</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You are a man, a model and a symbol.<span> </span>You symbolize and personify our quest for a new vision for our society, a vision that is hopeful, practical, inclusive and sustainable.<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You need advisors who hold all of the above qualities, who can think outside the box.<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I know that you have many “real-world” political advisors surrounding you – they are needed, they are necessary and you could not effectively govern without them.<span> </span>But, don’t let them be your sole source of advice – we didn’t vote for you so that you could fill the White House with the old political crowd (Democrats or Republicans).<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You need advisors who can think outside the box (who actually don’t even recognize that there IS a box!)<span> </span>Balance your team with visionaries, ones with some dirt under their fingernails from doing real work in the world.<span> </span>There is a real difference between a visionary with achievements versus a visionary with just dreams.<span> </span>You need doers, not just talkers.<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">ADVICE #4:<span> </span>YOU ARE NOT A “CENTRIST”</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Neither the “Right” nor the “Left” have the vision for an America that works for all.<span> </span>Both the Left and the Right have flawed, myopic, partial viewpoints.<span> </span>But, paradoxically, both the Left and the Right hold key elements to the future of this country; they hold parts of the solution.<span> </span>Neither side should be dismissed out of hand.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Your job is to get the dinosaurs to play well together.<span> </span>Only together can those Left-Right viewpoints be transcended, harmonized, and resolved into one greater image.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">You know that the traditional “Democratic” and “Republican” parties are outmoded and out of step with 21<sup>st</sup> Century realities.<span> </span>You know that your campaign for the Presidency has ignited a passion for politics (with the small “p”) that the major parties cannot understand, let alone harness.<span> </span>You know that you can harness this energy.<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Your job is not to sit between these two warring camps.<span> </span>Your job is to sit ABOVE them.<span> </span>You are not a “centrist”.<span> </span>You are a “trans-centrist”.<span> </span>Let’s elevate the conversations beyond the uninspiring rhetoric that has been such a turn-off for many in the electorate.<span> </span>(I quote in my book a line from the movie “Slackers”: “Withdrawing in disgust is not the same thing as apathy”.)<span> </span>Your candidacy hit the “on” switch for tens of millions of us.<span> </span>And, you can help keep us turned on.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Of course, you will have to drag the mainstream media, kicking and screaming, into this new viewpoint.<span> </span>They still can’t comprehend what your victory means for America.<span> </span>Yesterday, CNN was reporting on how “black” churches were celebrating your election, completely missing the fact that there were at least a few “white” churches that were just as celebratory.<span> </span>They can’t see it.<span> </span>You can.<span> </span>WE can.<span> </span>And the media will, too… eventually.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">ADVICE #5:<span> </span>YOU ARE THE LEADER OF A MOVEMENT</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">As you correctly stated, your job as President doesn’t start until mid-January.<span> </span>(Do not deny Bush the opportunity to further lower his poll ratings or to increase his historic position as the worst president in modern history.<span> </span>It’s his karma.)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">However, you are not just “President” &#8212; you are also the leader of a movement.<span> </span>That job started decades, perhaps centuries, ago – it has just reached a powerful nexus point.<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I started in this movement to save our human family and our planet 45 years ago (yes, you were 2 years old).<span> </span>The movement will continue when both of us are dust.<span> </span>This movement is the legacy that we leave to your daughters and my grandsons.<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Unless there is a transformation in how we interact with each other, with our neighbors, with the Earth and with the Divine, those young ones have no future.<span> </span>Once we make these transformations, the future for our children and grandchildren is limitless.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Your role in the movement is obvious: KEEP IT MOVING.<span> </span>The politicos will want the people to sit down, shut up, and “leave it to the pros”.<span> </span>RESIST THIS.<span> </span>The movement for an inclusive, sustainable and loving society will not wait.<span> </span>Leading this movement is the single most important thing that you can do as President.<span> </span>It far exceeds any piece of legislation, any Executive Order, any policy initiative of your Administration.<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Although you take the Oath of Office in January, you can stimulate and catalyze this movement RIGHT NOW.<span> </span>Don’t wait for the Inauguration – put us to work.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">ADVICE # 6:<span> </span>TAKE THE FIRST STEPS</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">What you can do, right now, is catalyze a community, regional and national dialog on the fundamental issues facing us as we enter the 21<sup>st</sup> Century.<span> </span>(Given your present world stature, this dialog could be global.)<span> </span>Ask us: what can we do, on the local level, to address our social, political, economic, ecological and spiritual mega-crises?<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">This dialog would NOT be: “What must government do for us?”<span> </span>(You are about to find out how little government can actually do!)<span> </span>But, by bringing the conversation to the local level, you can catalyze building the most powerful people’s movement America (and the world) has yet seen.<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">So, what are these first steps?<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">1.<span> </span>Dialogs on Food, Water and Energy Security.<span> </span>Every community should know where its food, water and energy come from.<span> </span>Every community should launch discussions on how they can achieve sustainability on the local and regional levels.<span> </span>From these dialogs, each community should develop plans for local sustainability for food, water and energy.<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">2.<span> </span>Dialogs on the Future of Economics.<span> </span>All of our media-driven discussions on our economics have been focused on fear and insecurity. <span> </span>Most of our “rescue” attempts are aimed at reviving a system based in waste and greed.<span> </span>It’s time to re-define economics, to focus on hope, vision, and the realities human beings in the 21<sup>st</sup> Century.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">In my work with Sarvodaya in Sri Lanka, we are experimenting with something we’re calling “relational economics”.<span> </span>The economics of people who are in actual relationship with each other.<span> </span>Economics not controlled by individuals, corporations or by the State.<span> </span>Economics at the community level.<span> </span>(A side piece of advice for you: to stimulate a community-based relational economics, your stimulus packages should be based on community, not on individuals or governments.)</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">4.<span> </span>Dialogs on Healing.<span> </span>How do we heal our society?<span> </span>After years spent in a wrong-headed and meaningless war, the men and women in our military are hurt, bruised, confused, angry and sick.<span> </span>After decades of divisiveness, our politics is fractured and visionless.<span> </span>Our legacy of slavery and American-style Apartheid continues to haunt us.<span> </span>The pending economic collapse hangs over our head like a crushing weight.<span> </span>We must atone for the pain and damage we have caused the Earth.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">In the face of this, healing is necessary.<span> </span>We all share the pain and we all can, through the exercise of compassion, share in the healing.<span> </span>Asking us to engage in healing dialogs can serve as a start to this long-term process.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">5.<span> </span>Dialogs on Our Vision for Our Society.<span> </span>According to Thomas Jefferson, our present Constitution was meant to last only one generation.<span> </span>He believed that every generation should re-write the Constitution.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We are long overdue.<span> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We obviously cannot start with a Constitutional Convention – that would be suicidal.<span> </span>Most Americans have spent so much time as “consumers” instead of “citizens”, we no longer recognize the principles that lie at the foundations of our society.<span> </span>(This is why President Bush could get away with using the Constitution like toilet paper – most of us didn’t know what was in it to begin with.)<span> </span>We are going to have to start over again – to teach ourselves to become the intelligent, informed citizenry that Jefferson and the other Founders envisioned.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">We can start with an interactive national dialog on “American Vision and Values”.<span> </span>According to the Bible, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” (Proverbs 29: 18).<span> </span>You can catalyze a dialog process with teeth – the people need not perish.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">ADVICE #7:<span> </span><span> </span>DON’T FORGET TO BREATHE.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">I strongly encourage every person who works with me to have a daily meditation practice.<span> </span>It is the best (perhaps only) way to stay focused on the long haul, to not get caught up in the swirling madness of our times.<span> </span>It is the best way to stay true to our common mission: to create a world that truly works for all beings.</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Peace,</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">Sharif Abdullah</p>
<p class="MsoNormal">PS:<span> </span>Incidentally – if you are interested in my help with any of the above, please do not hesitate to call.</p>
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